Showing posts with label temptation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label temptation. Show all posts

Friday, March 28, 2014

The Danger of Forgetting the Gospel



When you forget the gospel, you begin to seek from the situations, locations,
and relationships of ministry what you have already been given in Christ. You begin to look to ministry for identity, security, hope, well-being, meaning, and purpose. These are things you will only ever find vertically. They are already yours in Christ so you have to fight to give the gospel presence in your heart. Also, when you live out of the grace of the gospel, you quit fearing failure, you quit avoiding being known,
 and you quit hiding your struggles and your sin.[1]




[1] Paul Tripp, “Pastoral Ministry is War,”, accessed August 18, 2013, http://thegospelcoalition.org/blogs/tgc/2011/08/08/pastoral-ministry-is-war/.

Friday, October 11, 2013

When a Single Pastor Flirts

Flirt -  A playful advance by one person to another subtly indicating a romantic or sexual interest.
So why do we flirt? Maybe that is our way of "testing the waters" to see if someone we are sincerely interested in is interested in us. In most cases the motives for flirting are not that pure. We flirt with no long term goals in mind. We want to be seen as attractive, desirable, funny, or countless other adjectives that somehow make us feel like a more valued person. Maybe we just like the challenge or can't stand the solitude. We see him or her.  They catch our attention because of their appearance or persona and we decide that it would be nice to receive that person's attention. So we flirt. Maybe they return our gaze multiple times on the subway. Or maybe we are attracted to her low cut blouse, or his masculine physique. We slip into this fantasy world. But think about it. That "look" attracts us now but if he or she ever became ours that same "look" would drive us crazy with jealousy. It is not what the spouse of a minister should ever wear.

Sunday, October 6, 2013

Stressors of Singleness



In preparation for this writing the author received input from various single ministers. Most were done by face to face interviews, others by email, and others solely by their writings and perspectives as single ministers. Their views have been brought together to understand the stressors in the lives of single ministers.
When interviewed their most mentioned struggles were with loneliness, a lack of accountability, a search for significance, discontentment, self-pity and at times too much freedom. Others also talked about their difficulty of balancing control, compromise, and submission. Most singles would be familiar with these struggles but when combined with the demands of ministry that have already been mentioned it becomes fertile soil for certain types of temptations.

Friday, October 4, 2013

The Demands of Ministry



As one seeks to understand the temptations of a single minister one must have a good understanding of the demands of ministry. Ministry of any type is a job that deals with the eternal. While others have jobs that are important, demanding, and stressful, ministers have the burden of knowing that what they do has the potential of impacting every part of their congregants’ lives. It affects the present and eternity. It is a calling that deals with the most profound issues of humanity. If one is not equipped with the needed skills and knowledge and not empowered by the Holy Spirit, ministry can quickly deteriorate from a blessing to a curse. It is truly a vocation, a calling, with huge rewards and at times gut-wrenching losses.

Thursday, October 3, 2013

When We Forget the Gospel



When you forget the gospel, you begin to seek from the situations, locations,
and relationships of ministry what you have already been given in Christ. You begin to look to ministry for identity, security, hope, well-being, meaning, and purpose. These are things you will only ever find vertically. They are already yours in Christ so you have to fight to give the gospel presence in your heart. Also, when you live out of the grace of the gospel, you quit fearing failure, you quit avoiding being known,and you quit hiding your struggles and your sin.[1]


[1] Paul Tripp, “Pastoral Ministry is War”, http://thegospelcoalition.org/blogs/tgc/2011/08/08/pastoral-ministry-is-war/ (accessed August 18, 2013).

Friday, May 11, 2012

Temptation the Familiar Foe



As we look at the people of scripture, the individuals around us, and at our own lives we see that temptation is everyone’s foe and unwanted companion. Even those best known for their service to God such as Abraham, Moses, David, and Peter struggled against temptation. In the words of the Apostle Paul, “I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do. . . For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. For what I do is not the good I want to do; no, the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing.(Romans 7:15, 18b, 19).
Even Christ was familiar with temptation. He was made like us in this way so that he, Christ:

Might destroy him who holds the power of death – that is, the devil – and free those who all their lives were held in slavery by their fear of death. .  . For this reason he had to be made like his brothers in every way, in order that he might become a merciful and faithful high priest in service to God, and that he might make atonement for the sins of the people. Because he himself suffered when he was tempted, he is able to help those who are being tempted.(Hebrews 2:14b, 15, 17, 18)

In scripture the words that have been translated as “temptation” were at other times also translated as “test” or “trial.” The Greek word Peirazō was used in various scriptures to mean examine, submit another to a test, to learn the true nature or character of, to trap or tempt. (James 1:14, 2 Cor. 13:5; Matt. 16:1, Mark 1:13)[1]
The New Testament forms of this word included peiráō (to try, to test, to put someone to the test, or to know by experience), peirasmós  (testing, temptation) and apeírastos (untried, without temptation). [2]
In the Old Testament in Genesis 22 we see a similar idea. Abraham was tested to see if he would obey and sacrifice his son Isaac. In the book of Job, Job was tempted and tested to turn against God in the midst of his suffering. In the book of Judges the Israelites had entered the Promised Land but all the ungodly inhabitants were not driven out. Judges 2:22 says, “I will use them to test Israel and see whether they will keep the way of the LORD and walk in it as their forefathers did.
The temptations of scripture were not merely situations where people could be drawn into moral or spiritual failure. There was a redemptive aspect to the temptation. It was an opportunity to show the condition and loyalty of one’s heart. Temptation was a crossroads where one could harden their heart against God and sin or move towards him and obey. In success their faith would be strengthened. In failure their sinful struggles could be revealed and surrendered anew to Christ. 
The next blog will consider how we are "Enticed by Our Desires."



[1]James Swanson, Dictionary of Biblical Languages With Semantic Domains : Greek (New Testament), electronic ed. (Oak Harbor: Logos Research Systems, Inc., 1997), DBLG 4279, #1.

[2]Gerhard Kittel, Gerhard Friedrich and Geoffrey W. Bromiley, Theological Dictionary of the New Testament, electronic ed. (Grand Rapids: William B. Eerdmans, 1985; Published in electronic form by Logos Research Systems, 1996), 822.

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

The Challenges of Being Single and in Ministry

In a recent conversation with a single pastor he shared how he had met his ex-wife at an online Christian dating service. They were later divorced. He eventually left his church and is now a single military chaplain. He had been a single pastor before meeting his wife and now had returned to being a single minister once again. What desires and temptations led him down that path and what could have been done to prevent it?

Monday, April 11, 2011

A Heart of Worship

All of us are motivated by our strongest desires.  Every moral decision that we encounter, every decision that involves “right and wrong,” is either influenced by our desire for Christ or our desires for some form of self.
             If Christ is the chief desire that sits on the throne of our hearts then all other desires will submit to our allegiance to Christ. As we abide in Him He will quiet our hearts, clear our minds, and reveal the true reality of the world around us. As we find our needs met in Him and what was accomplished on the cross our desperate longings for the things of the world will begin to subside.

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Idols of the Heart

Whatever Rules Your Heart Drives Your Behavior. Romans 8:5 shows the key role that our desires play in the way that we live. “Those who live according to the sinful nature have their minds set on what that nature desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires.” [1]
When Christ is our greatest desire then everything else submits accordingly. When Christ is relegated to something less than first place in our lives that means another desire has taken His rightful place on the throne of our hearts. This desire will then dictate the direction of our lives in matters that are related to it. Our hearts will also then begin to wander away from God’s best for us because we no longer are living with Christ as our first love.  Scripture calls that an “idol of the heart.” We may not have physically bowed to a statue but in our hearts we have committed spiritual adultery and given our heart to another.